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Developing a strong, stable, and successful relationship with a woman takes lots of hard work and time. It requires sacrifice and sometimes it can even cause a lot of pain.
Yet, once you reach the pinnacle of success with a thriving, successful relationship you get to know and be with someone with whom you get to share a type of intimacy that very few ever get to truly experience. However, most relationships don't even make it out of the beginning stages because most people don't even have a good and healthy reason to be in a relationship let alone know what they are in a relationship for. People like to say that they are in a relationship because they are in Love and want to spend the rest of their lives together; yet, most relationships have at least one person in it because of fear. "Hello, old chap, you got to work, hey?"Tom wheeled suddenly and said:"Why, it's you, Ben! I warn't noticing.""Say -- I'm going in a-swimming, I am. Don't you wish you could? But of course you'd druther WORK-- wouldn't you? Course you would!"Tom contemplated the boy a bit, and said:"What do you call work?""Why, ain't THAT work?"Tom resumed his whitewashing, and answered care- lessly:"Well, maybe it is, and maybe it ain't. All I know, is, it suits Tom Sawyer.""Oh come, now, you don't mean to let on that you LIKE it?" Love (attraction) many times in the beginning isn't a conscious choice and for a relationship to thrive at some point it must become a conscious choice of two people deciding to choose too love. Yet, relationships based on love (attraction) have a foundation full of pleasure. As long as the attraction is strong the "What's your name?"love will continue to survive. When the attraction is gone or a stronger attraction in someone else arises the Love will die and someone will be left with the decision of either ending the relationship or simply letting it survive. |