I would prefer all the mess that comes with really giving my heart to someone, than to have the “perfect” love, the “perfect” partner, the “perfect” relationship.  Because this perfection will inevitably fail and cease to exist.  Because this perfection does not exist at all.  Because life will not always be roses and rainbows;  it will be a conflict and failure, and pain, and obstacles. But if we walk together in life, holding hand in hand, we will overcome all obstacles! If you are ready for this step, let me know!